Sex n Relationships

[Angelique]

Women want a relationship without the complication of unnecessary sex; Men want sex without the complication of an unnecessary relationship. Do u think this is true?

[Voodoo]

I think that if you view things that way then you're just playing into stereotypes. I agree that most guys are about sex and that most girls want a relationship so you cant just say Guys and Girls, you have to say most because there are exceptions to the rule.....such as me:mexican:

Anyway, yes I think it's true.

[me hate libs]

I think this is a good example of the difference between sex and making love.

However, it is really too compliacted to explain the real meaning of either of those things in a relations. But I will say, it needs to be derived from some sort of relationship that is mutually beneficial.

[The Hammer]

Ya I don't agree at all. I mean don't get me wrong sex is definitley one of my favorite things to do but it's always better with someone that actually means something. In my opinion anyway.

[Assassin™]

I think people should stop fusing the two elements together. There is the animal physical attraction inside all of us which instinctively gives us the want for sex.

Then there is the reproductive aspect of it. We have to do it if we want to keep the human race alive. Obviously, not everyone does it for this reason, but that is why we humans are not asexual and can't reproduce by ourselves.

Where people get confused is when relationships spring up. Do you need a relationship to have sex? Obviously not. Is sex better when you are doing it with someone with whom you are in a relationship with? Depends on who you ask. Sex obviously wasn't meant for just people in relationships. As far as the conflict with how women view sex and how men view sex, you have to find a partner who either feels the same way you do about the counteraction of sex and relationships or who respects your moral standards enough that the abundance or lack of sex in a relationship won't cause strife and disagreements.

Of course, this entire philosophy on men and women's views of sex is thrown out the window when considering gay or lesbian relationships.

[Adam Copeland2]

I think it all depeds on age. Plus, there has been a medical explanation 4 dis. Teens & youngsters undergoing puberty have the highest hormonal drive, and therefore, lean more towards the stereotypical image of sex being dirty and animallistic, and enjoy it. Most of them, depending on who they are, like relationships in which more sex is involved, having almost never experienced the heavenly side of sex. As they age, and mature, their hormonal drive reduces, and so, they gain interest in 'relationship' part of a relationship

[xXHHHXx]

Ehh, IMO I think most guys are like that. But... I think that a lot of guys wait for the right girl to do it with. But teenage boys go through that stage where they like girls.... A LOT. etc. Like you'd fuck at any moment of time.

I'm over that stage. lol. but I still think that you should wait for the right time to do it. I want to find a girl that I would know for sure to spend the rest of my life with before I do anything like that. Maybe just mess around with the rest. Just like.... make-out. The usual.

But back on the subject... I really agree with that statement, and I'm just one of those guys who aren't really like that. Don't get me wrong. Girls can be sluts, and just want to fuck too. But mostly guys have that feeling...

[F-U]

Yea.. most guys are just wanting making out and sex... so the girl has to hold that off as long as they can before doing that to try to get the guy to actually like them and not there body.