I am not counting NXT, NXT UK or 205 Live in my opinions.
Regarding the Ruthless Agression era (2002 - 2008), the most charismatic wrestler IMO has to be between Chris jericho and John Cena.
Arn't we kind of still in the PG era. lol A lot of debate of when the PG era ended ... if it has. lol Early PG era, I would still have to say John Cena, especially regarding the crowds. Later PG era, I have no idea. lol
At the moment, I would say Seth Rollins.
You forgot the Attitude Era lol although it has to be The Rock lol